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Omar
51 • Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 31
Education: Bachelors Degree
Only a real relationship, no money arrangements.
Rome was not built in a day. I take quality time to get to know you better, do the same for me. Sometimes people ask me how I achieved success and happiness. I have very simple rules: 1. You keep calm and follow your guts. 2. You never forget: I am OK, you are OK. 3. Do it, don't speak it. 4. Have a good team: no a-holes, people with soul. 5. Work hard, but one day a week do not work. 6. Only one thing at a time, concentrate. 7. Do not make money number one, you won't be successful. You will be a stinking whore. 8. Keep the word you speak, what you say will be done, every effin day! The step to go from a boy to a man is not simple. The following is advice to grow strong as a man: 1. No matter if your father is strong or weak, at least one day a month honor him, it will make you stronger. 2. Respect and listen to your father's expectations, but live your life as if your father was dead. Only with that mindset will you become your own man. I promise you. 3. Once your father dies, honor his heritage, big or small. 4. If you have children, do not overprotect them, but take them into the wild and then protect them as much as they need, but not more. 5. Find a strong vision and purpose in life and live it like a good father, every effin day! 6. Find and take advice from mentors. 7. There is a father watching all over us. The power you put in God, is the power God puts into you. Be honorable! I love to laugh, tease and have fun. I am a very playful, sometimes outrageous and strong. I am very confident in my abilities. Patient and understanding. Scorpio 🦂♏️ Ox 🐂 🅾️ blood type ➕ RH For fun I like to: ✅ Travel 🛣️🚢🛫 ✅ Enjoy comedy 😂🤣 ✅ Listen to music 📻🎚️🎧🔊🎶 ✅ Ride motorcycle 🏍 ✅ Unlock secrets 🔓🔎⚛️ I'd rather be alone than with bad company. I need you to improve my life, not make it worse. I value politically moderate or conservative/traditional women who are not fooled by far-left or far-right extreme thinking. Please don't waste my time sending me a message if you: ❌ Are vaccinated for COVID-19. Even if it was just one shot. I have physical ways to verify this in person, so don't attempt to deceive me. ❌ Are a feminist/liberal/modern woman expecting to be treated like a traditional woman. ❌ Are a barren/infertile or post-wall/menopause woman since I'm interested in starting a family. ❌ Are a single mother, if you couldn't keep your previous man then you won't be able to keep another man. ❌ Have no photo in your profile, sorry I'm not interested in anonymous ghosts. 👻 ❌ Have no way of making a video call later on, I want to make sure you are real and not a scammer. Plus, I want to see and talk with you if I'm interested. Please be patient, I receive too many likes on a daily basis to be able to properly respond to all of them within 24 hours. But I promise I will respond within a week. I have a busy life and I cannot hang around this website all day. Sometimes I'm only here for a few minutes every other day. I do the best I can with the little free time I have available to respond to my messages here in a timely manner. Thank you for understanding. If you really like me then please invest your attention, energy and time into our initial communication. This is easy to accomplish if you write me a message as if you are talking to me in person. Don't write things that you wouldn't dare say to a complete stranger in person. You don't want a lazy man, so don't be a lazy woman. Read my entire profile first. I will easily know if you read my profile or not. We only get what we give. If you really want to catch my attention then send me a well thought out message that is respectful, shows genuine high-interest and proves that you actually fully read my profile here. I spent a lot of time writing this profile for a good reason, to weed out the bad apples/time wasters. Are you confused with some of the words or terms I used? Be resourceful, expand your vocabulary. Google is your friend!
James
37 • Bismarck, North Dakota, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 47
Education: Bachelors Degree
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I consider myself to be kind and patient. I am a bit nerdy. I have worked in the IT field for many years. I still like to do tech-related projects outside of work. I am currently dieting, trying to slim down a bit. I like to explore new countries and cultures.
Samuel
36 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Education: Masters Degree
A well rounded man who works hard
Thai/English Thai: ฉันเป็นคนมีชีวิตชีวา ฉลาด และมีเสน่ห์ เป็นนักเขียนและนักสื่อสารที่ทรงพลัง ฉันเป็นผู้นำที่สนุกสนาน เอาใจใส่ และเปี่ยมด้วยความรักในครอบครัว โดยมีเป้าหมายที่จะให้คำแนะนำลูกๆ ของฉัน ในขณะเดียวกันก็รักษาแนวทางที่สนุกสนาน ฉันอดไม่ได้
Aaron
54 • Fayetteville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 37
Education: Vocational College
I'm Aaron. Women ONLY...no "lady-boys", no Trans.
if you ask me for money you will be blocked. Ladies, do you want a husband because you need help, or do you want to be a Wife? There is a distinct difference. If you have 3+ kids under 18, no thank you. I am looking for a partner not someone to spon
Jesse
45 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Education: Bachelors Degree
Un caballero busca una musa para toda la vida.
I am not perfect, I have flaws. But I am also, extraordinary, in many ways. I currently have three main interests to my life: freedom, mobility and union. I want to be free from cultural and social indoctrination so that I can reach my peak, I wa
Simon
47 • Milpitas, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 36
Education: Bachelors Degree
Hello Looking to meet an amazing person
I am a relaxed, patient, humorous, and kind guy. I enjoy hanging out with friends, family, and staying fit. I am getting to a point in life where I need to settle down, so looking for someone with good qualities. Although I'm looking for a potential life partner making new friends along the way is always rewarding as well. I enjoy working out, reading, traveling, and some video games in my spare time.
Honz
55 • Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 48
Education: Masters Degree
You + Me = ???
LOOKING TO MEET SOMEONE that is Real with REAL Intentions. WhatsApp or Skype is Ok Video Chat is a must. Not looking for long distance relationship. Character: 8) I am happy, honest, confident, strong, stable, responsible, accomplished, cre8tive, intelligent, clever, witty and fun to be around. I have high morals and strong family values. I believe in keeping it real as well as keeping the glass half-full. I am looking to make new friends. I enjoy the out doors, hiking, biking and snowboarding. I like to stay in shape, so I spend my mornings at the gym working out or going for a run. I'm looking for someone with the same motivation as I have when it comes to taking care of them-self. I enjoy romantic dinners and stimulating conversation. Family is very important to me. I have a smart, beautiful nine year old daughter. She is a blessing. Interests: Enjoy being out doors. Enjoy going to the beach and surfing.. Enjoy going out dancing or hanging out watching movies at home. I grew up in Boulder, Colorado and eventually moved to California. Lived in San Francisco, Huntington Beach near Los Angeles and San Diego. I enjoy going on hikes & skiing... Aspen, Vail... Enjoy hikes at National Parks - Rocky Mountain, Yosemite and Yellow Stone National Park. Recently traveled to Disney World: Hollywood Studios, Epcot in Orlando, Florida ...8)
Michael
62 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Education: Bachelors Degree
I am a caring, kind, honest, and responsible man
If I would describe myself it would be a King Arthur type personality. I have a great sense of fair and just behavior. I do what is correct no matter the cost, because it is the right thing to do. I am looking for someone, who is confident about herself that she feels my equal to have a true partnership in life. Someone who doesn't always agree with me, but not a combative person either. One who enjoys life and would like to have fun, but also responsible. I am a father of twin men. I hope for the best for their future and will offer advise if they ask me. I often volunteer to help out my community. I workout 5 days a week. I love dancing.
Andy
45 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 39
Education: Masters Degree
Hello, nice to see you!
Nice to see you! I really like to travel and drive. I am open-minded and interested in multi cultural way of thinking. I like to play golf, tennis, basketball, baseball, table tennis, bowling, etc. (I like sports. Playing and watching, too) Lis
Ben
66 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 51
Education: Masters Degree
Tomorrow Will Be Today
I am a well rounded person - physically, intellectually and spiritually. I am family-oriented, honest, kind, patient, loyal, sympathetic, fair, responsible, and understanding. I have a long professional career in software engineering and technical program management.
Marc
51 • Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 45
Education: Bachelors Degree
Are you looking for me? 😊
Hi there, My name is Marc. I'm a single (yes single! lol) guy that loves to get out and exercise. I'm living in Portland, Oregon but would like to travel to the Philippines someday. I've always thought that Filipino women were the most beautiful in the world. That's why I'm on here to maybe meet one. :-) Looking for a long term relationship. 
InDaMoment
62 • Orange, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Education: Bachelors Degree
Read carefully and all of my profile details,..🌹?...
Life is short and we have one chance at it so make it count! I live life with passion in all aspects, God, family, work and play...I try to have balance. With that said, family and loves ones are very important to me as they should be for you. I am honest, educated, confident but humble, fun, spontaneous and love a good adventurous. I appreciate good food&wine, music, love to travel and respect all cultures. I like to be active outdoors, scuba, swimming, walking on the beach and love golf. I am a romantic at heart, love to kiss & cuddle up for a movie or dress up for a night out. I'm looking for my best friend and soul mate on this journey. Seven1fournine0fourzero5seven4. Bay mot bon chin kg bon kg nam bay bon.
Carl
66 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 40
Education: Bachelors Degree
Hi, This is Carl Koster in NYC
I’m 62 never married, no children. mixed light brown/blonde hair, blue eyes, muscular/athletic. I am born and raised and I live and work in NYC. I am spiritual but not religious; I don't go to church on Sunday's. I try to approach life with an open mind. Life changes on a dime and one never knows what's around the corner. I'm truly warm, affectionate, supportive and patient. I’m very intelligent/perceptive, dynamic, psychologically aware and globally/culturally experienced. I have a friendly outgoing personality with a unique sense of humor. I try to take things as they come and make the best of anything that I do. I'm a highly creative, adventurous, inventive, confident type but I’m never cocky or arrogant. My friends will tell you that I'm definitely fun to be around! I'm not a couch potato so sitting around on the weekends watching sports on TV is not for me. I like to go out and do things! I do enjoy active sports like snowmobiling and surfing etc. Some of my interests include: Gourmet food/wine/cooking, photography, art, politics, film/theater, vintage sports cars and Grand Prix auto-racing. I love to travel when I can and exotic beach vacations to Costa Rica, South America, Fiji, Phuket and Bali are among my favorites. I have a healthy lifestyle and I try to keep everyday stress to a minimum. I'm an educated, sophisticated guy with serious integrity so no need to worry about any games. I have noble intentions so please be comfortable taking me seriously. I am genuine, legitimate and sincere and only if you are too then I would be interested in getting to know you. Integrity and transparency are tantamount to me. I’m a regular white collar professionally employed guy with intense and passionate sexuality and I joined TC for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage.
Theron
41 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 38
Education:
Driven man with a passion for living his best life
Hi! I’m Theron. I'm a down to earth guy looking for friendship and maybe more if I make a connection and the chemistry is right. I like to read, workout and work on personal development. I like watching movies, going out to clubs, trying new restaurants, bars etc. I love to travel whenever I can get chance.
Michael
69 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Education: Vocational College
I'm Michael, I love Tropical lifestyle
I'm an outgoing guy. I love the beach,the mountains. . I respect and appreciate what a honest woman brings to a relationship and a marriage.I'm 65 years old, but, my spirit is young and fun loving. I don't need the fast life,but I like everything from dancing,movies,adventure, or just relaxing. I'd also love to see Thailand !!
Mack
77 • Baton Rouge, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Education: High School
Gentleman seeks Asian beauty.
I enjoy dining out, going to the movies, pets, nature, flower gardening, vegetable gardening, fishing, hunting and spectator sports. I have been in 2 long term relationships and seek a 3rd. I can take or leave the bar scene. I have very varied music interests.
Rick
70 • Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Seeking: 18 - 30
Education: Bachelors Degree
Looking for wife prefer ladyboy
I'm 69 retired and looking to find my future wife/partner. To be honest she will most likely be a ladyboy as in many cases they are as feminine as most women and will not have to worry about starting a family with a young woman. I love the feminine a
Robert
49 • San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Education: Vocational College
Looking for Serious Relationship
It is very hard to describe yourself to someone without sounding boastful, everyone has good qualities and bad qualities. Some have more than the other. I like to think I am different from most American men. I don't pay attention to sports or TV. I think I am a very loving and caring person. One thing that I do know is that I am funny, I always make people laugh! If I find the one I could love and decide to get married, I would treat her so good. Well, I have a very good career, I work for a large computer company as Manager of Information Technology. I am a very creative person (mostly on the computer). I design web sites as well as video editing and Photoshop. I am very serious about finding my true love. I don't want to play games. I just want a serious relationship.
Harish
48 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 42
Education: Bachelors Degree
48/M/Single, Software professional, USA
A well-established software professional with a stable career and financial situation. Love coffee, books and anything to do with science fiction. Into photography and creative writing. I have a deep affinity for nature and long to lose myself in the
Philip
37 • Metairie, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Education: Bachelors Degree
Seeking a special woman✨
Hi, I'm Philip. I am a fun yet laid-back guy who is looking for the right Filipina. I have been to the Philippines and loved it and the people/culture there. The trip was for my brother’s wedding, where I had the honor of being the best man. He married a Filipina (and yes, I wore a barong!). I’d return to the Philippines in a heartbeat if it meant I could meet someone truly special. I’m divorced with 3 amazing kids—two girls (9 & 6) and a boy (8). They live with me at my house part-time, alternating between 2 days one week and 3 days the next (35% of the time). I am very open to and would love to have more children 👩🏻‍👨🏻‍👦🏻‍👧🏻. My Christian faith and relationship with God are really important to me ✝️. I’m quite involved in my church, where I serve in the preschool children’s ministry. I am very health-minded and prioritize exercise. Some of my favorite ways to spend my time include: hanging with family, working out at the gym 💪, playing chess ♟️, and eating good food. I also highly value taking it easy and relaxing at home 🛋️🍷.
Antonio
58 • Hilton Head Island, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 58
Education: Bachelors Degree
Let's celebrate life together!
I am a simple, hard-working, trustworthy and honest man. I am calm and quiet, good at listening, caring, sincere, consider, tolerant, gentle and very romantic man that is not afraid of showing my feelings. I have a good heart, I am family oriented, and I do everything in my power to care and protect my loved ones. I dream about traveling the word with my future wife, holding hands, walking side by side and exploring life together. The rest, I live it up to you to find out.
Phill
52 • Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 55
Education: Masters Degree
Here I am - Send Me An Angel.
I currently work as a network engineer, In 2018. I retired from the US Army with 24 years of military service. Adventure-seeker, laid-back foodie with a passion for cooking and trying new restaurants. I’m here to find someone to share laughs, deep conversations, and cozy nights in. Let’s explore new hiking trails, share our favorite books, and create lasting memories together. In search of a friend, partner, and someday, my forever love.
mark
64 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 65
Education: Bachelors Degree
Going to Taegu soon. Submit resume~ Serious only
God is First in My Life. Let go, Let God~ NO SEPARATED or MARRIED Individuals please. I am not interested in angering God. Monogamy is important to me. I will not be part of a love triangle. PLEASE be SINGLE!! I am not somebody’s second half. I am a whole person. I am not looking for the right person. I am doing my best to be a better person. I am not perfect. Yet, daily I strive to be better than I was the day before. I am a Spiritual Being having a Human Experience. No losers looking for a Sugar-Daddy! If you don't have physical stamina I am NOT the man for you. Fun Loving, focused, sincere, loyal, committed, honourable, trusting, vulnerable, playful, goal driven, moral, sensuous and outdoorsy.　When I lay my head down for the last time, may the World say that I was a giver and not a taker, that I lived my life with integrity and excellence, that I was a caring generous man who always did his best to be effective in every aspect of his daily life. May they say, I lived my life as walking a spiritual journey, always scrambling to improve; I know there is nothing such as spiritual perfection. May God Bless Us All - Marcos Antonio Dominique~ Yes, I left out my last name. I don't need any stalkers! ;-)
Mark
50 • Cary, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Education: Bachelors Degree
Can it be you?
Hello there! I’m an interesting mix of an introvert and an extrovert, someone who finds joy in both lively conversations and peaceful quiet moments. My love for scenic drives is a testament to my appreciation for life’s simple pleasures. These drives
Eric
55 • Chattanooga, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 47
Education: Vocational College
Looking for soul mate
55 no kids, looking for soul mate, i am not a rich man I work hard for what I have I dont want a gold digger or scammer. No cheaters I dont cheat and expect the same from a woman. I think Thai women are beautiful and sexy., I like traditional woman dark hair dark eyes. Slinder body beautiful smile and funny.
Tom
61 • East Orange, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Education: Bachelors Degree
World is getting smaller
Easy going man with values and dedication to life. I am retired and ready to live my life. It'll be fantastic to find a partner in crime to spend time with. I am a respectful man who will not ask for a naked photos of you. I have read many ladies profile stating such things are asked of them. For that I am sorry.
Brandon
41 • Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 47
Education: Bachelors Degree
Looking for a real connection
I'm B, looking to meet a beautiful mind and spirit to share my precious time with. I'm fun, spontaneous, and very loving. I have a great job and tons of time to hang out with you. I want someone ready for the ride of their life, and if you act right,
Justin
44 • College Park, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 22
Education: Bachelors Degree
Seeking a Genuine Connection and a Shared Future
Hello! I’m a 43-year-old entrepreneur who values stability, sincerity, and joy in life’s simple moments. My career in the software industry has been fulfilling, providing me stability and the opportunity to travel, live abroad, and experience different cultures. I'm now looking to share my life with someone who is ready to explore a serious relationship that I hope will lead to marriage and a loving family.
Tony
54 • Irving, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Education: Bachelors Degree
Hello, Pleased to meet you
I am an outgoing, laid-back person who loves being home and traveling. I am looking for a long-time love to share the rest of my life with. If you do not like big men, keep scrolling. I do not want you to waste your time or mine. I do not play games or expect the same, and I am not a long-distance sugar daddy. Divorce paperwork Has been filed, but I have lived alone for more than 3 years, and I do not want to make myself a divorce because that is not true in my government's eye. I believe in the truth because if you or I lie, it will come out in the end.
Joao
64 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 35
Education: Bachelors Degree
ชาวอเมริกันกำลังมองหา "ภรรยาสาว" ไม่ใช่หญิงชรา!
I am looking for a young wife that really wants to have children. Understand I don't wan old women!! Don't write to me if you are old!! I am looking forward to meeting my soulmate, talking and starting a friendly relationship based on trust and respect. Most importantly, I believe in the quality of life in terms of mutual understanding, appreciation for the people I care about. Age is important to me ... I only like young women !! Because I want to have children ... Women over 35 are not welcome! I like young wives. I really want to have children. She can give birth. If you are a old women, please, do not want. Write to me. I will not respond!
Corey
48 • Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 50
Education: Bachelors Degree
Impesando para buscar amor
Hablo español bastante bien... Pero para escribir esto estoy usando el traductor de Google. Entonces, si cambia mis palabras a algo loco, ¡no es mi culpa! Jejeje Busco una relación seria que pueda llevar al matrimonio. Sin embargo, no busco lanzar
Jake
33 • Hallandale Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: 18 - 50
Education: Bachelors Degree
coder_cosplay on insta
Hi, I'm Jacob A. Allen people call me Jake. I'm 183cm I'm gender fluid and pansexual. I like both male and female people. I like to dress cute. I own my apartment and car. I work as a web developer I enjoy manga, anime, & cosplay. I enjoy the outdoors. Like Kayaking, Camping, Fishing, Biking.
Matthew
44 • Fayetteville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 34
Education: High School
Single Dad, looking for Love.
Hello there! Thanks for stopping by my profile. I'm the type of person who loves staying true to themselves, and I find joy in indulging in a variety of hobbies and interests. When I'm not busy working, or being a Dad, you can find me building and re
Art
53 • Cupertino, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
Education: Bachelors Degree
If you're not verified, go that way ----
I'm getting older but I don't feel it. I like to work out when I can and am happy either staying at home or mixing it up with my friends. I love to travel and love snowboarding. My favorite country is Japan and i've been there many times. I can find solace in being by myself and enjoy being by myself, but wouldn't life be more interesting to share with someone else, right? My parents are Filipino, but I can't speak the language which is a shame. I speak more Japanese than Tagalog, sadly. I'm pretty humble and I would rather listen than talk. What say you?
Randy
51 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 44
Education: Bachelors Degree
I want a God Fearing woman that loves Fun in Bed
Christian, God Fearing, honest, simple, loving, caring, family oriented, responsible, faithful, understanding, patient, gentle, humble and good hearted, Separated father of 2 daughters, 16 and 17. Looking for a woman that loves to give and receive much pleasure in the bedroom and if our chemistry is right, we can consider. I need a good woman. I'm in USA, and I sleep alone, as I am separated. Looking for a new life partner who loves to both receive and give great oral pleasure, this is important to me because I need the stress relief and I believe a healthy sex life is very GOOD for the health. I am open to commitment. I need a good woman who loves to cook. I love Asian Foods, I love spicy, I love curry, I love soups, I love Asian food!!! Did I mention I love Cunnilingus? I love a woman who loves providing Fellacio activities and fun. I love a woman who wants Cunnilingus. Just in case you wonder why I’m here, here is my story, just 3500 words, LOL Here is my story, so you know... please read this carefully and consider me, thank you in advance for your time! In 1997 I had gotten close to a lady, Teresa Marie, in the USA that grew on me as we got closer and closer. I was in the US Air Force at the time. We were very close when I got military orders to go to Japan. I left for 2 years in Japan. I then later got out of the Air Force and ran into her again in 2000. We quickly regained our closeness and remained close until 2003, when I found another friend of mine at her house at 3am. My heart was broken so much, I wanted to leave and go away as far as possible, even to the other side of the planet into a danger zone / war zone. I had no concern for myself or my safety, I just wanted to go away, I had loved her so much. Since it was after 9/11 attacks, I had just got my heart broken, and I had just got out of 9 years Air Force, I decided I wanted to leave my home state and go overseas and help the military. I was so broken hearted by her I was hoping that something would happen to me in the war zone area of Iraq or Kuwait. I wanted my hurt to be gone, and I wasn’t dealing with it properly and using wisdom. I let it get to me. I had accepted a telecom job in Kuwait helping the US Army as a contractor. I went to Kuwait at the end of 2004. I was planning to only work and stay single and try to save money in Kuwait. A few months went by and my co-workers were trying to get me out of the apartment on the weekend. I finally gave in and went with them to a place in Kuwait called the Filipino Food Center, they had live music and food buffet. I met Victoria there on the dance floor in front of the DJ and Blasting Loud Speakers, she was from Cebu and working in Kuwait, and she was trying to send money home to family and support her 16 year old daughter. At that moment in my life, I still felt broken, broken-hearted, and miserable from my USA Lady, Teresa Marie, relationship going bad. When I met Victoria, she relaxed me and spoiled me. She did a good job. She got me hook line and sinker. I felt in love. She got me good. I saw her work conditions and living conditions and I thought to myself, I wanted to rescue her from her conditions and I could give up myself to make nice for Victoria, get her an opportunity as a US Citizen and living in America, I was not using wisdom at all. I did not give any scrutiny or criticism to her little lies and deception. At that moment, I didn’t care about myself. She spoiled me so good, she latched on to me, and she told me I was going to marry her. I didn’t argu. I just went along with what she said because she was mostly treating me like a King, very nicely. I never asked her to marry me, she told me I was going to marry her. I never ever planned to get with someone that was not born-again Christian. Church was so important to me, but she sweet talked me into believing she accept Christ and will go to church with me, well, as the years went by, yes, we went to church, but she never wanted bibles study, she never wanted to get involved with church family activities, she never wanted to study the bible, she’s not book smart. I tried so much, as the years went by, but she said, “No, I don’t want”. So, thinking back in 2005 that she would be happy to go church with me, I went along with it, not realizing I was going into a trap that I could not seeI was not using wisdom and I wasn’t focused on looking for a Proverbs 31 woman like I should have been. I didn’t scrutinize or test or evaluate her against what the bible says in Proverbs 31:10-31. We went to Cebu, Philippines in October 2005 to get married at the Cebu Court House. She already had a daughter from before that was 16 years old so I started paying for her college at that time and help financially support the utilities and things at her little house in Cebu. To her credit, at the beginning we were always eating out, so she I guess thought that it was always going to be like that with me, she wouldn’t have to cook, because we would always eat outside or order food for delivery. Maybe that was my fault to spoil her to the eating out all the time. I guess I blame myself for that part of the problem We had 2 daughters born in Kuwait. The first daughter, Jahlena, had a perfect natural birth in 2006 at the Kuwiat Government Hospital. Later on in 2007, the second daughter was ready to be born. Victoria said she did not enjoy her experience at the Kuwait Government Hospital, so we picked a different place for her birth. Well it turns out we went to the wrong hospital with incompetent doctors. Victoria almost died at the hospital during Vahnna’s birth. Vahnna was very big [11 lbs and 6 oz] and they did a natural birth instead of a C-section. They got Vahnna hung up and could not get her unhung up. They hurt Victoria a lot and they paralyzed Vahnna’s left arm trying to get her out. They finally got her out. But they almost both died. TERRIBLE “DOCTORS”, I wish I could go back there and spank both of those doctors and sue that hospital bigtime. See, I’m not a huge guy, and Victoria is not huge, but on her side on her mothers side, there are some bigger genetics from Victoria’s Mother’s Father (From China). And on my side, my Mother’s Father and all his family were really big, large knees and large ankles and big big big. Well, both of my daughters are not skinny and they are not pitite. They are big girls. But Those doctors nearly killed both Victoria and our second daughter Vahnna. Vahnna is 16 years old and she still suffers from that birth injury. She has a malformed and weak left arm. She does almost everything with only the right arm. It is so difficult for her. Vahnna’s birth Injury is called Erb’s Palsy, caused by the hanging of the shoulder, which leads to a Brachial Plexus Injury. “Erb palsy, or Erb-Duchenne paralysis, is a paralysis of the arm caused by the injury to the upper group of the main nerves supplying it, specifically the upper trunk C5-C6 of the brachial plexus In Victoria’s defense: I look at her event of Vahnna’s Birth, was tragic, and I feel she suffered a near death event and PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder every since. This is what I believe to be the primary problem. She has not had the determined intellect and spiritual wisdom to overcome the trama and fear of that nearly fatal birth of our second daughter in 2007. I believe that in her mind, she does not want the chance of another traumatic brith experience. So I started to notice her acting differently toward me in 2007-2008… the romance evaporated to nothing, vanished, it was over. I had noticed it, but I tried to play it off and be positive, it never got better. When our daughters were little and so cute… we were always going to Filipino Parties for Birthdays, Christmas Parties, etc. as we would go… and meet other friends and families… it was much more fun when the daughters were little and fun and busy to keep up with all the time. I treasured those moments. As the years went by… the daughters became more growing and more independent (of course). I enjoyed the Filipino Parties so much years ago… but that became less enjoyable for myself over time… why? Well, because our relationship suffered and had no romance, it would make me feel sick when we would go to a Filipino Party event and I would visit with the male spouses and their wives were good and romantic and come and sit on their husbands lap and have little kisses and hugs… it would only remind me of my broken relationship at home, and no hugs, no kisses, no cuddles, nothing. It gets so irritating and uncomfortable for myself… I usually don’t go inside the Filipino Party Event / get togethers any more, it makes me feel not good when I go and see other couples have romantic romance actions, hugging, holding, etc. I don’t get that in my life now for many many years. I feel like I’m in a house arrest, in a prison without the touch of a woman. I’m so tired of it. I want it to be over. I want a change. Also, if I go to the Filipino Party Events, I see the romantic wifes being romantic to their husbands, I look at them, so beautiful, I feel temptation and dream. But I know I should not bother them, that would be bad of me. So, it is better I don’t go to any Filipino Party Events, so I don’t feel the misery and temptation. I try so hard to be good and do the right thing. I want a woman in my life that loves me. I say this to establish and give better understanding to the big picture, which likely explains why things are the way they are in the relationship between Victoria and I. Every since 2007, Victoria does not want me to touch her. The romance evaporated into nothing in 2007. I have suffered every since. No Hugs, No Kisses, No touching, No cuddles, NOTHING. She might on rare occasion display in front of her friends, excitement to see me and give me a hug in front of her friends, BUT IT IS ALL FAKE AND ALL DRAMA, NOT TRUE. I’m a prisoner in my own house every since. On top of that, she always complains about something every day, complaining to me to do this or do that to fix it (NOT politely, but rudely demanding, and raising her voice at me, as if I don’t care), all the time and everyday is abnormal. She has mental issues. Quite often, she will get ready to go out to eat then tell me she is going out to the car to go eat… then she is upset while waiting for me to get ready. She did not tell me to get ready, she gets ready and tells me she’s going to the car to go out. She will not sit down and wait for me or us (the girls) to get ready, she yells and shouts, “LET’S GO!!!, HURRY, LETS GO!!!” She is so impatient and does not communicate properly. She is rude to me all the time. As I reflect back, I guess she was rude to the girls as they were growing up, I never put my foot down and was fearful to put my foot down and try to correct things, difficult to do the right thing sometimes. I didn’t know what to do to make things better. It is mental abuse. She’s been doing this and acting like this for many many years, it is TRULY Heartbreaking. It hurts so much… for example; So, she demands I drive her to wherever, restaurant, out to eat or whatever, I don’t argue, I try to please and keep some peace, so I go… then when we get to the store or the mall or to the grocery store she just gets out of the car and walks away without me. She does not wait for me. She will not wait and walk together, She just takes off. In the grocery, she always walks away. I can’t stop to look at anything in the store, cause she’ll just take off without me, like I don’t exist or I’m a total stranger. No walking together, no holding hands, no hugs, NOTHING. If we are going to a restaurant to go eat, she does the same thing. She gets out of the car and walks away, she never waits for me. She goes into the restaurant and finds a table without me and I have to follow and find the table wherever she went. Is that romantic or what?? Same thing if we go to a Shopping Mall. Well at least she knows what I like to eat. But she will not cook for me. My youngest daughter will cook for me, but not Victoria. If she cooks for me some eggs she always overcooks them knowing I don’t like them cooked so much. She says, “oh well, there’s your egg, eat!” So usually I don’t ask her to cook eggs for me because she is going to intentionally do it wrong. Is that twisted or what? I’ve told her for many years, I would love to have Beef Stew, once a year I get beef stew, and it isn’t good. I also have another American food favorite my Mom use to make for me, French Toast, Victoria use to make French toast, but very rarely with much care, usually overcooked. My daughter Vahnna is an excellent cook, she cooks my egg perfectly, she cooks my French Toast perfectly, but not Victoria. After all these years, I’m so wore down and heart broken. I gave her my life to take care of her, rescue her from her work and living conditions in Kuwait, help pay her previous daughters college expense, I helped Victoria get her US Visa and US Citizenship. I’ve taught her to drive, paid for a car, pay a house mortgage and I get treated as a terrible tenant. She’s a nag nag nag usually about nothing that is a big deal. It gets old. Day after day, week after week, year after year. Many years ago, she started wanting to go to the Casino. I don’t care for going to the Casino, so I barely go inside then I go sit out in the Van and wait until she is finished playing at the Casino. She usually makes me driver her to the Casino every week for the last several years, at least an hour drive to travel to the casino, depending on which casino. I get treated as Mr. Taxi Driver dude. And no reward except she quits complaining and nagging when I start driving her somewhere. I’m so tired of it. I have a difficult job that requires lots of intellect and analytics and lots of driving all the time… even if I drive all day long, when I get home, she usually says, “I’m ready to go to the casino” then, it may escalate, when I tell her I’m too tired to drive that far. She does not care and insist on me driving to the casino and wait on her until she is done so I can driver her back. She is not comfortable driving over 40 miles per hour. So, if we need or if she needs to go somewhere down the faster Interstate highway where the speed is more like 70 mph plus, she will not and likely can not handle driving fast. I don’t get it. So, all the places she wants to go that require highway travel speed, I am the driver even to Filipino Parties 1 hour drive away. I drive her there, and I sit in the car/van and wait usually because I don’t want to be reminded of my relationship that has no romance and I don’t want the temptation of looking too much or speaking too much to the other Filipina's that are romantic and sweet to their husbands. I go home and walk in the door, during the 2005-2007 the home greetings were awesome. After 2007, when I come home, NOTHING, No Hugs, No Kisses, No Cuddles, no home cooked meal the way I like, the way my Mom use to cook . No “I love you”, never, always NOTHING. I want so much for this to be over and find someone new. I’m so tired of this heart ache and heart break. This is why you find me here. I’m dreaming and looking for someone to rescue my heart and restore a romantic life to my broken heart. This is difficult for me to be here because if she finds out… oh I’m in trouble. Trouble for what, not trying to be considerate, loving, and romantic. Hello, who is saying NO NO NO Verbally and NON-verbally MOSTLY to me all the time. IF you tell a spouse no long enough, years for sure, something is likely to lead to separation emotionally, physically, and maybe spiritually. I can say all the prayers and even powerful prayers; IF she doesn’t want me or if she doesn’t want to be romantic to her “husband”, I can not force her to love me. If she doesn’t love me, what can I do, only pray and be strong, I continue to try and endure… I want it to be over, completely, but I also want to cherish, honor and respect, and care for the feelings of our daughters 16 and 18 now. I don’t want them to cry. I want to be with and support and be there for my daughters. I’m still here for them mostly. I also, her in the USA, I don’t have the heart to push Victoria out on the street, she could not provide for herself here, it is very expensive in the USA. I still provide shelter and try to show love. After all these years of trying and enduring. I’m tired. I want a change. I need someone new in my life. This is my life romance story. I hope that helps you understand where I’m coming from and explains why I’m here. AFTER SUMMARY I'm sorry I'm getting older, most of my hair has gone, I was an idiot thinking I could improve my smile by removing my teeth to wear dentures, I did not like my first dentures, so I don’t wear them. I plan to wear new dentures soon when I get a proper fit, I’m hopint; and too much stress has been killing me for years, work stress and home stress. My work is very stressful like an Air Traffic Controller job, I work Global Network Field Operations, very stressful job And when I go home, I get no hello, no hug, no kisses, nothing from the lady from cebu that told me I was going to marry her in 2005. She had me hook line and sinker. She caught me, spoiled me, deceived me. My heart has been very broken for a very long time. I am partly to blame for being stupid, unwise and not evaluating her more before allowing myself to get with her. I want to use the excuse that Teresa Marie in the USA broke my heart so much in 2003, I din’t care about myself and I did not use wisdom when I allowed myself to get with Victoria from Cebu. I was trying to be overly optimistic while being so unconcerned about myself at that time. I remember thinking to myself, as referring to Victoria, “I could give this girl a change of life for the better, all I have to do is go with the flow and give her the world as much as I can, US VISA, US Citizenship, etc. and take care of her”. I didn’t know how much it was going to cost me by getting with someone that didn’t truly love me. She does not love me. I still endure and try to make things as good as I can. It is getting old. I’m so tired of it. She lied to me so much. It was difficult raising our daughters with her. She would become so uncooperative at times. I tried to mostly play everything off as it will be alright. It hurts beyond imagination. I gave up my life to make things good for her, recued her from her job and work and living conditions in Kuwait. I helped her get US Visa and Citizenship and a home in USA, and she stepped on my heart in 2007 by only treating me nice in front of other people and behind the scenes treating me like a bad tenant they pays the bills and drives her everywhere. I wish I could have a new life with a Hot new Filipina wife do you know if you could comfort my heart cuddle me every day and take care of me and cuddle on the couch while watching tv or hold me in the bed? I am so tired of sleeping alone, like in a prison without a woman to hold and kiss and make love to and spoil and give pleasure and comfort where she would be willing and want to cuddle and hug and kiss. Do you want to be the one that heals my broken heart ? 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