Separated American Men At ThaiCupid.Com

Wik

37 • Petaluma, California, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 24

Marital Status: Separated

Life is too short to be bored or just to pay bills

I am in Businesses In my business I am surrounded by beautiful women everywhere. I have learned the beauty is COMMON, but high value men are NOT. So if you are beautiful on the outside, congrats. But I am looking for someone who is beautiful insid

V

43 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 33

Marital Status: Separated

I see the world differently than others.

Separated/Single full time dad. Hard worker at full time job. Enjoys watching movies. Gamer in amature Esports. Not a pro gamer. Enjoys outdoors, walks. Occasional yoga and pilates. Compassionate, loving, caring, loyal and sensual when needed. Who is looking for serious relationship and who is ok just starting off as friends first building that trust, while getting acquainted, leading to a relationship and eventually evolving into a committed relationship.

KEVIN

45 • Memphis, Tennessee, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 42

Marital Status: Separated

Looking forward to the future

Open to new ideas and opportunities. I like things simple. Not looking for adventures just peace! I was in a bad motorcycle accident last year and Ive had time to reflect. I have one child and Id like more. They can be mine or adopted its all the same to me. Ive spent most of my adult life in the military but now I own and eletrical company in memphis TN. Mostly I buy, repair, and sell houses. Ive been all through latin america and most of Europe. Ive never made it to the philipines but I a have funny feeling Id like it there. I plan on retiring in the next 5 years an enjoying my hobbies. I want to build a self sustaining home on a hilltop. Then I can garden, and make wine, cheese, and bake bread from scratch. Id love to have the time to tinker with my tools in my work shop most days. I love cooking, building, planning, growing, reading. Although I enjoy traviling im just as content to stay at home with the kids and take in a movie. At this point I feel that life is to be enjoyed. No stress...... just good times and good people. Im more of a traditional guy. If you can be there for me then I will most curtainly be there for you. Just take my hand.

Ronny

66 • Los Angeles, California, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 54

Marital Status: Separated

Everything I Do, I Do it For You

I'm a great guy that's had a bit of a rough time and am now rebuilding. Any girls that are looking for money and security please do not respond. Girls looking for the love of their life, and a wonderful life long companion please do write to me. And I very much appreciate all the responses I get from everyone. I just cannot answer all of them. I like the important things. Quiet talks and walks on the beach, sharing wonderful meals that I can cook for you, and lots of hugs and cuddling. Honesty! I do not drink even one drop. If you are a bar fly and like to go out partying I will not be with you. But if you want a man who will fawn all over you, love you like a princess and hold you until my dying day then send me a note. Young girls love me but young is not a requirement of mine. Good character, no crazy temper, caring and sensible are traits that are important to me. Everything else is a bonus. Asia Traveler: China (Shanghai, Shenzhen, Kunming, Dali, Leijang, HK, BJ, Shenyang and Fushun) and The Phil Cebu (Moal Boal). Ran downtown Los Angeles hospitals for over twenty years. No temper, kind, gentle, romantic, caring, fun, funny, charming. Have dated Asian women since 1979. You will not find a USA man who understands you better than me

Robin

55 • Naperville, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 40

Marital Status: Separated

Chance For Adventure!

I have an unusual and uncommon set of life experiences. Not to be unhumble, but I'm definitely smarter than the average bear, so expect a wide and deep range of knowledge. I've worked in military intelligence and counterterror. I've been a history

JAMES

60 • Santa Monica, California, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 49

Marital Status: Separated

Lawyer needs lover

I help help fire victims for a living and make a good living doing it. I plan to travel more in 2024 and have bewen to 35 countries. I need a real connection from someone that will stimulate me physically and mentally. I love Malibu but I would consider leaving for the right person. I love all sports, playing, coaching and watching. I also get free movies since I was in show business in a previous life. I love the outdoors but also TV or abook at night

Tim

61 • Marion, Ohio, United States

Seeking: Female 34 - 52

Marital Status: Separated

What kind of love have you got

I am 60years young have conservative values and morals gentleman I like to look good and smell good!!! Old school polite neat .I enjoy simple life vs high speed city night life . walks a good cup of coffee and sunsets and well as great conversation a

Moustafa

58 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking: Female 28 - 40

Marital Status: Separated

I'm not into games

I'm a hard worker who cares for others and take care of many cats. I treat my cats like my kids. if you do not like cats, do not bother contacting me. one more thing, do not ask me to add you to What's up or Skype at the beginning, maybe when I know that you are not a scammer. if you are a scammer, I will report you and then block you..Fair enough ?

Kevin

55 • Providence, Rhode Island, United States

Seeking: Female 40 - 55

Marital Status: Separated

Looking to connect on multiple levels

I'm very Loyal, hard working, motivated, happy, silly, emotional and thoughtful. I'm hoping to find an asian woman to be my life partner. The best relationships are those of couple that can enjoy doing many things together. I believe a strong friendship & great romance will be an amazing relationship. I believe life is about balance. Family & health first balanced with hard work to achieve goals and a great life. I hope to find my future princess on here. We can live an amazing life together. Whether we are walking down the beach together holding hands in the sunset, traveling to Italy other great destination or simply relaxing, reading or just enjoying each other’s company. Exercise is also a big part of my life. Lifting weights, running, tennis, walking, (walking dogs 😬) badminton and lots of other activities. Eating healthy is also a very big priority to me. I prefer to cook meals with great quality foods and occasionally dine out. I hope to be patient to find who I believe is good match for me. I have a couple of dogs part of the time. One big & one small. I have the dogs only about half the time. They play together and are great for each other, but love to play games, be walked. They very lovable and easy to like. I have a promotional product business in which we import in custom made promotional products from China. There is a strong asian community in my state. It is a very pretty state with many beaches. It is named the Ocean state. The smallest state in the country.

Darya

61 • Dallas, Texas, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 45

Marital Status: Separated

Where there is LOVE, there are WAYS.

I believe I am an old fashion guy, very loving, caring, responsible, dignified, decent, very romantic and a down to earth man. I love walking 🚶‍♂️ on the beach, love going on cruises, going on resorts, travelling the world. Reading and writing poetry. I love having candle light dinner on the beach. I like to enjoy life as much as possible. I am very optimistic, a positive person and like optimistic people. I love good tasty food. I am a God fearing person. Very happy and satisfied with my life (thanks God).

Dennis

41 • Medina, Ohio, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 41

Marital Status: Separated

Recently separated and looking for my life partner

I'm an easy going, open minded guy who gets along with everyone. It's easy for me to make new friends. I am very outgoing and treat people the way I would want to be treated. I'm loyal, honest, caring, confident, respectful. I like camping, hiking, c

Brian

43 • Tampa, Florida, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 25

Marital Status: Separated

Looking for a forever relationship.

I am currently a student finishing a graduate degree in engineering. I enjoy photography and travel. I'm also getting back into fitness and running after a long hiatus. I have the cutest kids in the world from a marriage that did not work out. I abso

Samuel

36 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

Marital Status: Separated

A well rounded man who works hard

Thai/English Thai: ฉันเป็นคนมีชีวิตชีวา ฉลาด และมีเสน่ห์ เป็นนักเขียนและนักสื่อสารที่ทรงพลัง ฉันเป็นผู้นำที่สนุกสนาน เอาใจใส่ และเปี่ยมด้วยความรักในครอบครัว โดยมีเป้าหมายที่จะให้คำแนะนำลูกๆ ของฉัน ในขณะเดียวกันก็รักษาแนวทางที่สนุกสนาน ฉันอดไม่ได้

Brad

44 • Alamogordo, New Mexico, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 45

Marital Status: Separated

Looking for partner to travel and enjoy life with

I love getting out and exploring nature and discovering new things. I like to do yoga and exercise. I really enjoy going out and listening to music and shooting pool. But at the end of the day I like to snuggle up on the couch with my dog. Looking to

David

39 • Largo, Florida, United States

Seeking: Female 31 - 51

Marital Status: Separated

Healthy, Honest, Loyal, Trustworthy, Cheerful

Hello, my name is David I am 38 and looking to for my life partner. I am currently separated from my unfaithful wife and in the process of getting a divorce. My friends suggested I try mingling. gentlemen, good heart, kind, caring, wild, (ambiti

Joel

63 • Asheville, North Carolina, United States

Seeking: Female 35 - 70

Marital Status: Separated

careful we may hit it off won’t know until we try

I am interested to see what can happen, I am easy going and enjoy good conversations and sharing a nice time with a lovely women, dinner, drinks, walk and you know just a nice time. I am open minded excepting and respectful I am a gentlemen I will treat you as a lady that you are.

Kevin

63 • Wilmington, Delaware, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 50

Marital Status: Separated

Let’s take life’s journey together holding hands

I currently work for a global company for the last 15 years with offices in the US, Asian, Europe and Latin American. My job has allowed me to interact with various cultures globally and I enjoy working with the foreigners the most. I am easy going, patient and enjoy being with children. I will always try to avoid an argument at all cost because it never ends well. I love being outdoors with my man toys whether its jet skiing, sailing, boating or water skiing in the summer on my jet ski, motor boat or catamaran or cycling or hiking in the Spring/Fall and skiing in the winter. I am certified in scuba diving but haven't dove in years but go again. I like watching sports but will not waste my days off sitting in front of TV watching it. I'm not your typical male because I do cook and clean and was heavily involved raising my 3 wonderful children who are now adults and will do the same again for my soulmate’s children. I welcome your house pets if you have them except for spiders & snakes, I do like to sleep easy at night. Just don’t rely on me to take care of your pets because I will be too busy enjoying taking care of you,😁. I grew up in a house with every type household pet you can imagine and spent a few summers on my Uncle’s dairy farm in Ireland. I do like to make people laugh and will make fun of myself just to get a smile out of you. I love to sing and dance and I think I sound great singing only when I blast the music so loud I cannot I hear my voice, haha. I like to go out the weekends as well as staying at home at night and watching a movie. I exercise every day in my $10k gym I built due to the pandemic and like to eat healthy. People say I look 10 years younger. I guess can attribute that to my healthy lifestyle. I used to run marathons in my younger days but had to scale back to a treadmill due to time. My best marathon time then was just under 3 hours for 26 miles (42 Kilometers). I hope you like family gatherings because I like entertaining my family of about 30 people in my home with my mother and the families of my 2 brothers and sister plus my children once every other month. Also I have never and will never ask for naked pictures and I am NOT here for a casual sex, that can wait until we are married if so desired. I am a gentlemen and that is not my personality to ask for pictures or do for those kinds of things. I don’t gamble, never smoked and I never did drugs. I rarely drink but will have a drink or 2 at gathering where nobody speaks English, it helps me understand them better, hehe. I do not take medications and I have no diseases and no STDs and hope my future soulmate is the same. I shower everyday and sometimes twice a day if my soulmate would like some company too, 😉 wink. I shave every night to be a little more sexier before going to bed. I am monogamous and only had 1 partner for the last 30+ years and I am in search of a soulmate for the rest of my life. I believe in ladies night out and I am not the jealous type. I believe if you let a dove go and it comes back it’s yours forever. If the dove doesn’t come back then it was never meant to be. I always put my family and soulmate needs first before mine for example I have purchased for my children new cars for safety reasons while I was driving a 10 year old car because I just want my kids to be safe. I did eventually replace my car after 400,000 kilometers. I do occasionally go to church when I’m caught up with my endless list of house projects. I get most of my electricity from solar panels on my house and drive electric cars to do my part to save the planet. I’m not here to just to live with somebody but here to find someone I can not live without.

daniel

53 • Charleston, South Carolina, United States

Seeking: Female 28 - 55

Marital Status: Separated

Chino

38 • Oakland, California, United States

Seeking: Female 21 - 35

Marital Status: Separated

❤️ I need you ❤️

Val

47 • Sacramento, California, United States

Seeking: Female 22 - 35

Marital Status: Separated

Priamoi

I am serious about pursuing a relationship (including meeting) with a mature woman (no games!), but it is so difficult to tell who is real and who is not real here. I know there are many man scammers but the same is true with women. If you are for re

steve

56 • Edison, New Jersey, United States

Seeking: Female 26 - 45

Marital Status: Separated

Active, Fun Man Enjoys the simple things

I'm an active person who love to do things outdoors, ski, boating, you name it. Not crazy about camping don't love the bug bits. I like to keep healthy, but love my spanish food. I can cook, clean, and do yard work. Very hands on type of man. Love

BRAD

61 • Norwalk, California, United States

Seeking: Female 29 - 48

Marital Status: Separated

a good man

I am a good guy looking for the affection of a great woman. I love to be around good people and would enjoy some travelling as well. I'm a little old school, meaning I've always believe your door should be opened for you and you should be protected.

Eric

64 • Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 45

Marital Status: Separated

Attractive loving, looking for friendship

Successful professional, Ex professional athelete (baseball). Like to stay in shape, and continue play sports worldwide. I like to make people smile with my good sense of humor. I am casual and funny, and most of all, honest. I am starting another company after selling last company, like the challenge of making something from nothing. Love marketing and product development and will build future company designing green building products.

David

56 • Puyallup, Washington, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 40

Marital Status: Separated

Active healthy man who loves Thai girls!

I'm a well travelled man who enjoys everything outdoors, I try to be sensitive to a woman's needs and go out of my way to please her. I'm happiest in a quiet setting with a special woman and don't care for crowds or being the center of attention. I'm not egotistical and not obsessed with or status. I love to eat good food And spending time with a woman who I can give all my love and attention to.

Tim

62 • Annapolis, Maryland, United States

Seeking: Female 46 - 77

Marital Status: Separated

Looking for someone to enjoy life with

Note. Picture showing me with the sign reading Philippines is part of the World War 2 memorial in Washington DC*** I will add I am not looking for LDR or an instant girlfriend. I would like to find friends first. Take my time to learn who a person is before deciding if there is a future together. I will not do whatsapp within 5 minutes of first meeting online. And yes I am talking to a few ladies. I will not be exclusive with anyone in just the first day. If yiu want to meet a sincere person and possibly meet when I do arrive to the Philippines that would be great. Even then relationships and trust takes time. I am close to retirement and looking into venturing off to another country to live. I have always wanted to see the Philippines to experience the culture. I am getting older and if I meet a lady who could make my life complete. I would cherish this. I am NOT religious or attend church.

Tony

54 • Irving, Texas, United States

Seeking: Female 40 - 55

Marital Status: Separated

Hello, Pleased to meet you

I am an outgoing, laid-back person who loves being home and traveling. I am looking for a long-time love to share the rest of my life with. If you do not like big men, keep scrolling. I do not want you to waste your time or mine. I do not play games or expect the same, and I am not a long-distance sugar daddy. Divorce paperwork Has been filed, but I have lived alone for more than 3 years, and I do not want to make myself a divorce because that is not true in my government's eye. I believe in the truth because if you or I lie, it will come out in the end.

Rudy

63 • Mankato, Minnesota, United States

Seeking: Female 47 - 99

Marital Status: Separated

want a stable loving man?

My nickname is rudy. I like camping hunting fishing making love drinking a nice merlot with supper when I can I like rock and roll old and new love movie series action movies I am 62 years old I'm retired from the US military. Im a very loving man.

Steve

67 • Stockton, California, United States

Seeking: Female 36 - 53

Marital Status: Separated

Matthew

44 • Fayetteville, North Carolina, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 34

Marital Status: Separated

Single Dad, looking for Love.

Hello there! Thanks for stopping by my profile. I'm the type of person who loves staying true to themselves, and I find joy in indulging in a variety of hobbies and interests. When I'm not busy working, or being a Dad, you can find me building and re

Randy

51 • Miami, Florida, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 44

Marital Status: Separated

I want a God Fearing woman that loves Fun in Bed

Christian, God Fearing, honest, simple, loving, caring, family oriented, responsible, faithful, understanding, patient, gentle, humble and good hearted, Separated father of 2 daughters, 16 and 17. Looking for a woman that loves to give and receive much pleasure in the bedroom and if our chemistry is right, we can consider. I need a good woman. I'm in USA, and I sleep alone, as I am separated. Looking for a new life partner who loves to both receive and give great oral pleasure, this is important to me because I need the stress relief and I believe a healthy sex life is very GOOD for the health. I am open to commitment. I need a good woman who loves to cook. I love Asian Foods, I love spicy, I love curry, I love soups, I love Asian food!!! Did I mention I love Cunnilingus? I love a woman who loves providing Fellacio activities and fun. I love a woman who wants Cunnilingus. Just in case you wonder why I’m here, here is my story, just 3500 words, LOL Here is my story, so you know... please read this carefully and consider me, thank you in advance for your time! In 1997 I had gotten close to a lady, Teresa Marie, in the USA that grew on me as we got closer and closer. I was in the US Air Force at the time. We were very close when I got military orders to go to Japan. I left for 2 years in Japan. I then later got out of the Air Force and ran into her again in 2000. We quickly regained our closeness and remained close until 2003, when I found another friend of mine at her house at 3am. My heart was broken so much, I wanted to leave and go away as far as possible, even to the other side of the planet into a danger zone / war zone. I had no concern for myself or my safety, I just wanted to go away, I had loved her so much. Since it was after 9/11 attacks, I had just got my heart broken, and I had just got out of 9 years Air Force, I decided I wanted to leave my home state and go overseas and help the military. I was so broken hearted by her I was hoping that something would happen to me in the war zone area of Iraq or Kuwait. I wanted my hurt to be gone, and I wasn’t dealing with it properly and using wisdom. I let it get to me. I had accepted a telecom job in Kuwait helping the US Army as a contractor. I went to Kuwait at the end of 2004. I was planning to only work and stay single and try to save money in Kuwait. A few months went by and my co-workers were trying to get me out of the apartment on the weekend. I finally gave in and went with them to a place in Kuwait called the Filipino Food Center, they had live music and food buffet. I met Victoria there on the dance floor in front of the DJ and Blasting Loud Speakers, she was from Cebu and working in Kuwait, and she was trying to send money home to family and support her 16 year old daughter. At that moment in my life, I still felt broken, broken-hearted, and miserable from my USA Lady, Teresa Marie, relationship going bad. When I met Victoria, she relaxed me and spoiled me. She did a good job. She got me hook line and sinker. I felt in love. She got me good. I saw her work conditions and living conditions and I thought to myself, I wanted to rescue her from her conditions and I could give up myself to make nice for Victoria, get her an opportunity as a US Citizen and living in America, I was not using wisdom at all. I did not give any scrutiny or criticism to her little lies and deception. At that moment, I didn’t care about myself. She spoiled me so good, she latched on to me, and she told me I was going to marry her. I didn’t argu. I just went along with what she said because she was mostly treating me like a King, very nicely. I never asked her to marry me, she told me I was going to marry her. I never ever planned to get with someone that was not born-again Christian. Church was so important to me, but she sweet talked me into believing she accept Christ and will go to church with me, well, as the years went by, yes, we went to church, but she never wanted bibles study, she never wanted to get involved with church family activities, she never wanted to study the bible, she’s not book smart. I tried so much, as the years went by, but she said, “No, I don’t want”. So, thinking back in 2005 that she would be happy to go church with me, I went along with it, not realizing I was going into a trap that I could not seeI was not using wisdom and I wasn’t focused on looking for a Proverbs 31 woman like I should have been. I didn’t scrutinize or test or evaluate her against what the bible says in Proverbs 31:10-31. We went to Cebu, Philippines in October 2005 to get married at the Cebu Court House. She already had a daughter from before that was 16 years old so I started paying for her college at that time and help financially support the utilities and things at her little house in Cebu. To her credit, at the beginning we were always eating out, so she I guess thought that it was always going to be like that with me, she wouldn’t have to cook, because we would always eat outside or order food for delivery. Maybe that was my fault to spoil her to the eating out all the time. I guess I blame myself for that part of the problem We had 2 daughters born in Kuwait. The first daughter, Jahlena, had a perfect natural birth in 2006 at the Kuwiat Government Hospital. Later on in 2007, the second daughter was ready to be born. Victoria said she did not enjoy her experience at the Kuwait Government Hospital, so we picked a different place for her birth. Well it turns out we went to the wrong hospital with incompetent doctors. Victoria almost died at the hospital during Vahnna’s birth. Vahnna was very big [11 lbs and 6 oz] and they did a natural birth instead of a C-section. They got Vahnna hung up and could not get her unhung up. They hurt Victoria a lot and they paralyzed Vahnna’s left arm trying to get her out. They finally got her out. But they almost both died. TERRIBLE “DOCTORS”, I wish I could go back there and spank both of those doctors and sue that hospital bigtime. See, I’m not a huge guy, and Victoria is not huge, but on her side on her mothers side, there are some bigger genetics from Victoria’s Mother’s Father (From China). And on my side, my Mother’s Father and all his family were really big, large knees and large ankles and big big big. Well, both of my daughters are not skinny and they are not pitite. They are big girls. But Those doctors nearly killed both Victoria and our second daughter Vahnna. Vahnna is 16 years old and she still suffers from that birth injury. She has a malformed and weak left arm. She does almost everything with only the right arm. It is so difficult for her. Vahnna’s birth Injury is called Erb’s Palsy, caused by the hanging of the shoulder, which leads to a Brachial Plexus Injury. “Erb palsy, or Erb-Duchenne paralysis, is a paralysis of the arm caused by the injury to the upper group of the main nerves supplying it, specifically the upper trunk C5-C6 of the brachial plexus In Victoria’s defense: I look at her event of Vahnna’s Birth, was tragic, and I feel she suffered a near death event and PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder every since. This is what I believe to be the primary problem. She has not had the determined intellect and spiritual wisdom to overcome the trama and fear of that nearly fatal birth of our second daughter in 2007. I believe that in her mind, she does not want the chance of another traumatic brith experience. So I started to notice her acting differently toward me in 2007-2008… the romance evaporated to nothing, vanished, it was over. I had noticed it, but I tried to play it off and be positive, it never got better. When our daughters were little and so cute… we were always going to Filipino Parties for Birthdays, Christmas Parties, etc. as we would go… and meet other friends and families… it was much more fun when the daughters were little and fun and busy to keep up with all the time. I treasured those moments. As the years went by… the daughters became more growing and more independent (of course). I enjoyed the Filipino Parties so much years ago… but that became less enjoyable for myself over time… why? Well, because our relationship suffered and had no romance, it would make me feel sick when we would go to a Filipino Party event and I would visit with the male spouses and their wives were good and romantic and come and sit on their husbands lap and have little kisses and hugs… it would only remind me of my broken relationship at home, and no hugs, no kisses, no cuddles, nothing. It gets so irritating and uncomfortable for myself… I usually don’t go inside the Filipino Party Event / get togethers any more, it makes me feel not good when I go and see other couples have romantic romance actions, hugging, holding, etc. I don’t get that in my life now for many many years. I feel like I’m in a house arrest, in a prison without the touch of a woman. I’m so tired of it. I want it to be over. I want a change. Also, if I go to the Filipino Party Events, I see the romantic wifes being romantic to their husbands, I look at them, so beautiful, I feel temptation and dream. But I know I should not bother them, that would be bad of me. So, it is better I don’t go to any Filipino Party Events, so I don’t feel the misery and temptation. I try so hard to be good and do the right thing. I want a woman in my life that loves me. I say this to establish and give better understanding to the big picture, which likely explains why things are the way they are in the relationship between Victoria and I. Every since 2007, Victoria does not want me to touch her. The romance evaporated into nothing in 2007. I have suffered every since. No Hugs, No Kisses, No touching, No cuddles, NOTHING. She might on rare occasion display in front of her friends, excitement to see me and give me a hug in front of her friends, BUT IT IS ALL FAKE AND ALL DRAMA, NOT TRUE. I’m a prisoner in my own house every since. On top of that, she always complains about something every day, complaining to me to do this or do that to fix it (NOT politely, but rudely demanding, and raising her voice at me, as if I don’t care), all the time and everyday is abnormal. She has mental issues. Quite often, she will get ready to go out to eat then tell me she is going out to the car to go eat… then she is upset while waiting for me to get ready. She did not tell me to get ready, she gets ready and tells me she’s going to the car to go out. She will not sit down and wait for me or us (the girls) to get ready, she yells and shouts, “LET’S GO!!!, HURRY, LETS GO!!!” She is so impatient and does not communicate properly. She is rude to me all the time. As I reflect back, I guess she was rude to the girls as they were growing up, I never put my foot down and was fearful to put my foot down and try to correct things, difficult to do the right thing sometimes. I didn’t know what to do to make things better. It is mental abuse. She’s been doing this and acting like this for many many years, it is TRULY Heartbreaking. It hurts so much… for example; So, she demands I drive her to wherever, restaurant, out to eat or whatever, I don’t argue, I try to please and keep some peace, so I go… then when we get to the store or the mall or to the grocery store she just gets out of the car and walks away without me. She does not wait for me. She will not wait and walk together, She just takes off. In the grocery, she always walks away. I can’t stop to look at anything in the store, cause she’ll just take off without me, like I don’t exist or I’m a total stranger. No walking together, no holding hands, no hugs, NOTHING. If we are going to a restaurant to go eat, she does the same thing. She gets out of the car and walks away, she never waits for me. She goes into the restaurant and finds a table without me and I have to follow and find the table wherever she went. Is that romantic or what?? Same thing if we go to a Shopping Mall. Well at least she knows what I like to eat. But she will not cook for me. My youngest daughter will cook for me, but not Victoria. If she cooks for me some eggs she always overcooks them knowing I don’t like them cooked so much. She says, “oh well, there’s your egg, eat!” So usually I don’t ask her to cook eggs for me because she is going to intentionally do it wrong. Is that twisted or what? I’ve told her for many years, I would love to have Beef Stew, once a year I get beef stew, and it isn’t good. I also have another American food favorite my Mom use to make for me, French Toast, Victoria use to make French toast, but very rarely with much care, usually overcooked. My daughter Vahnna is an excellent cook, she cooks my egg perfectly, she cooks my French Toast perfectly, but not Victoria. After all these years, I’m so wore down and heart broken. I gave her my life to take care of her, rescue her from her work and living conditions in Kuwait, help pay her previous daughters college expense, I helped Victoria get her US Visa and US Citizenship. I’ve taught her to drive, paid for a car, pay a house mortgage and I get treated as a terrible tenant. She’s a nag nag nag usually about nothing that is a big deal. It gets old. Day after day, week after week, year after year. Many years ago, she started wanting to go to the Casino. I don’t care for going to the Casino, so I barely go inside then I go sit out in the Van and wait until she is finished playing at the Casino. She usually makes me driver her to the Casino every week for the last several years, at least an hour drive to travel to the casino, depending on which casino. I get treated as Mr. Taxi Driver dude. And no reward except she quits complaining and nagging when I start driving her somewhere. I’m so tired of it. I have a difficult job that requires lots of intellect and analytics and lots of driving all the time… even if I drive all day long, when I get home, she usually says, “I’m ready to go to the casino” then, it may escalate, when I tell her I’m too tired to drive that far. She does not care and insist on me driving to the casino and wait on her until she is done so I can driver her back. She is not comfortable driving over 40 miles per hour. So, if we need or if she needs to go somewhere down the faster Interstate highway where the speed is more like 70 mph plus, she will not and likely can not handle driving fast. I don’t get it. So, all the places she wants to go that require highway travel speed, I am the driver even to Filipino Parties 1 hour drive away. I drive her there, and I sit in the car/van and wait usually because I don’t want to be reminded of my relationship that has no romance and I don’t want the temptation of looking too much or speaking too much to the other Filipina's that are romantic and sweet to their husbands. I go home and walk in the door, during the 2005-2007 the home greetings were awesome. After 2007, when I come home, NOTHING, No Hugs, No Kisses, No Cuddles, no home cooked meal the way I like, the way my Mom use to cook . No “I love you”, never, always NOTHING. I want so much for this to be over and find someone new. I’m so tired of this heart ache and heart break. This is why you find me here. I’m dreaming and looking for someone to rescue my heart and restore a romantic life to my broken heart. This is difficult for me to be here because if she finds out… oh I’m in trouble. Trouble for what, not trying to be considerate, loving, and romantic. Hello, who is saying NO NO NO Verbally and NON-verbally MOSTLY to me all the time. IF you tell a spouse no long enough, years for sure, something is likely to lead to separation emotionally, physically, and maybe spiritually. I can say all the prayers and even powerful prayers; IF she doesn’t want me or if she doesn’t want to be romantic to her “husband”, I can not force her to love me. If she doesn’t love me, what can I do, only pray and be strong, I continue to try and endure… I want it to be over, completely, but I also want to cherish, honor and respect, and care for the feelings of our daughters 16 and 18 now. I don’t want them to cry. I want to be with and support and be there for my daughters. I’m still here for them mostly. I also, her in the USA, I don’t have the heart to push Victoria out on the street, she could not provide for herself here, it is very expensive in the USA. I still provide shelter and try to show love. After all these years of trying and enduring. I’m tired. I want a change. I need someone new in my life. This is my life romance story. I hope that helps you understand where I’m coming from and explains why I’m here. AFTER SUMMARY I'm sorry I'm getting older, most of my hair has gone, I was an idiot thinking I could improve my smile by removing my teeth to wear dentures, I did not like my first dentures, so I don’t wear them. I plan to wear new dentures soon when I get a proper fit, I’m hopint; and too much stress has been killing me for years, work stress and home stress. My work is very stressful like an Air Traffic Controller job, I work Global Network Field Operations, very stressful job And when I go home, I get no hello, no hug, no kisses, nothing from the lady from cebu that told me I was going to marry her in 2005. She had me hook line and sinker. She caught me, spoiled me, deceived me. My heart has been very broken for a very long time. I am partly to blame for being stupid, unwise and not evaluating her more before allowing myself to get with her. I want to use the excuse that Teresa Marie in the USA broke my heart so much in 2003, I din’t care about myself and I did not use wisdom when I allowed myself to get with Victoria from Cebu. I was trying to be overly optimistic while being so unconcerned about myself at that time. I remember thinking to myself, as referring to Victoria, “I could give this girl a change of life for the better, all I have to do is go with the flow and give her the world as much as I can, US VISA, US Citizenship, etc. and take care of her”. I didn’t know how much it was going to cost me by getting with someone that didn’t truly love me. She does not love me. I still endure and try to make things as good as I can. It is getting old. I’m so tired of it. She lied to me so much. It was difficult raising our daughters with her. She would become so uncooperative at times. I tried to mostly play everything off as it will be alright. It hurts beyond imagination. I gave up my life to make things good for her, recued her from her job and work and living conditions in Kuwait. I helped her get US Visa and Citizenship and a home in USA, and she stepped on my heart in 2007 by only treating me nice in front of other people and behind the scenes treating me like a bad tenant they pays the bills and drives her everywhere. I wish I could have a new life with a Hot new Filipina wife do you know if you could comfort my heart cuddle me every day and take care of me and cuddle on the couch while watching tv or hold me in the bed? I am so tired of sleeping alone, like in a prison without a woman to hold and kiss and make love to and spoil and give pleasure and comfort where she would be willing and want to cuddle and hug and kiss. Do you want to be the one that heals my broken heart ? 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Seeking: Female 65 - 80

Marital Status: Separated

Looking for friends and one long term relationship

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60 • Bismarck, North Dakota, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 45

Marital Status: Separated

Looking for affection, laughter and devotion.

I am a self employed professional from a large family, enjoy both work and sharing time with loved ones. Looking to find woman to share future, who is affectionate, not afraid of intimacy, is kind and loving of me and my family, and I'll do the same with you and your family. Hope you like to golf! Getting a bit older yet with plenty of life and love to share. With my daughters all grown, educated and successful, I don't like an empty house, and miss having a child running to greet me after work so I would make a great step-father to help raise your if you have one! Enjoy golf, music, karaoke, family events, cuddling and affection. Decent cook:), bad housekeeper;( Please let me know if you have a current visa to enter the US!

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31 • Dallas, Texas, United States

Seeking: Female 35 - 60

Marital Status: Separated

Looking to love someone and someone to love me

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Seeking: Female 18 - 30

Marital Status: Separated

Ready to Build a Life Together, lets chat.

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64 • Terre Haute, Indiana, United States

Seeking: Female 32 - 60

Marital Status: Separated

Seeking farm girl.

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