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Balford
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40
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Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 41
Body style:
Athletic
Loyal and real 💯.
hello everyone I'm balford noble I'm on this website because I'm seeking a long-term relationship start off as friends and see where it goes from there let's get too know each other No Fakes also No Scammers thank you peace . Also I'm a teacher . Thank you please let's be honest and really talk if your interested.
His-Story
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Verified
55
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Newark, New Jersey, United States
Seeking:
Female
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Reading profiles is important. People always skip this section. I am Down to earth and serious minded. I love experiencing new things. Life is beautiful and I love to laugh. I am not a sports lover. I rarely watch television. There are so many things that I can say about myself. It is important to always know your self worth. I am always into self improvement. Business and finance motivates me.
Larry
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50
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Lakeville, Minnesota, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 43
Body style:
Athletic
Fun,Romantic,always out for some kind of adventure
Athletically minded, college educated, high moral fiber, always in the pursuit of happiness, good listener, fair thinking, adventurous to the point of extreme, love any water sports, when committed to something don't go halfway, all or nothing.
Leo
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50
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Ann Arbor, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 33
Body style:
Athletic
Older than Jesus ? - Leave me alone, no offense :)
Goal-driven. Empathic. Multi-talented. Live in USA and travel often. Kind, sincere, and generous to whom I love. Love my work, studies, nature, swimming, anime, books, good music and more. Like girls who know how to take care of their man, their kids, and their home, in that order. Hate selfishness, drama, and jealousy.
Dave
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57
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Gilbert, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 53
Body style:
Average
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Hello! I’m looking for a serious relationship that can lead to marriage. I’m looking for that special girl who can share her life and all experiences with me. I’m happy, easy going and I care about other people. I want to live a simple and happy life.
Liszt
Standard Member
68
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Parsippany, New Jersey, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 42
Body style:
Athletic
Liszt749
I'm friendly, selfless and Iike to live my life fully and well balanced. I like to read, workout, danse, enjoy the beach and love. I love nature and don't rush things. I'd love a good relationship. I acquired enough wisdom to help me appreciate and nurture a good relationship.
Lamont
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Verified
38
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Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 30
Body style:
Athletic
Read before asking me about marriage
The first step is verifying who we are on camera. This is not negotiable. If you can't get on or show yourself on camera I'll pass. Best of luck to you. I have to keep editing this because so many here are wrong. I am not here to marry. I repeat I
Mario
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59
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Kansas City, Missouri, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 45
Body style:
Average
Searching for that Special Lady ♥️
I was born in Germany due to my dad being in the Army, and I also served in the USAF. I've lived on 6 continent's, and it taught me that people are the same, we just have different ways of doing things. I embrace learning about different Cultures!
geoff
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68
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Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Female 42 - 64
Body style:
Slim
magnolia
I'm athletic, well educated, with an interest in nature (naturalist type activities), reading, and current events. I'm generally quiet with a gentle spirit. Honesty , compassion, and good character are more important then where you work.
Dannte
Standard Member
47
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Cincinnati, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 40
Body style:
Athletic
Hello beautiful
Hello ladies.Im new to the site.Im on here to search for my african queen...my soulmate.I have been divorced for over 3 yrs now and its time that I find the woman that I am suppose to give my heart to.Im a good man with good morales and a love for God that runs deep.Im a professional that is about his buisness but at the same time Im a kool , laidback , down to earth kind of guy that loves life.If you awant a good man in your life who will love you as his queen then come talk to me sweetheart.Until then ;)
J.R.
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60
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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
19 - 38
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Occasional traveler to Manila, Bangkok
Semi-frequent traveler to Southeast Asia...I might get to the Philippines once a year, so that big hurdle of getting the guy to come over is far easier with me, especially if you're around metro Manila. Well-educated (two college degrees), but trying to transition between careers and lifesyles and find something agreeable that's more settled-down. A misunderstood introvert and proud ISTP (if you're familiar with the Myers-Briggs). Often quiet, a thinker by trade. Haven't had the personality or extroverted nature to be a player, regardless of looks (people tell me I look 8-10 years younger). One of the original "travel hackers" who started that hobby in the 90s and rode it to states and countries, albeit on a tight budget. So I definitely like travel. I like 80s/90s alternative and some oldies in music, and also some of the finer things on food. Also to read, go to museums, and some sporting events. I know that meeting the really genuine, sincere women in the Philippines can require time and patience, and that's where I'm hoping this website will help, since my trips are only for a week or two and that hasn't been enough time to meet and get to know someone. Still want to know more? Also check out ploughman on D-I-A.
charles
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65
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Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 57
Body style:
Average
sweet,lovable,kind,and good heart and I'm generous
I'm kinda selfish and not nice at times. I think people should have more comen sense than they do and I make people feel bad sometimes if they don't do what I think is right (still working on that one). I'm really picky about who I get close to and become friends with. But I'm very passionate about everything thing I do. I expect the best and want the same in return.
William
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74
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 48 - 63
Body style:
Average
Bill from Houston Texas
I'm retired, about 6'2" tall. I'm divorced with a 33 year old daughter. I enjoy golf, travel, dining out and watching sports especially baseball, football and hockey. I have a large house and several cars but live alone. I'm looking for a life-mate who is active and enjoys doing outdoor activities with me but also has her own interests and friends.
Tom
Standard Member
57
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Albany, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 40
Body style:
Athletic
Looking for my soul mate
I've been very blessed in my life. I retired at a young age. I'm faithful and honest. I like to stay fit by running, working out, and keeping active. I love spending time on my boat and love to to travel. I'm looking for some very special to share and spend my life with.
Bill
Gold Member
72
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 52
Body style:
Athletic
A good relationship starts with a good friendship
Update: April 2025 - I am back at my home in California now - too hot in Thailand! What gives you joy in life? For me, it is food, travel, music, exercise and more food! I am a retired American professional who lives most of the year in California
John
Standard Member
63
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Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 38 - 54
Body style:
Average
Maybe your soulmate
I am outgoing and enjoy the ocean scuba, tennis, golf, cooking, or grilling out. I like optimistic people and those who encourage others to be their best. Spending time in nature, out to a quiet dinner, and relaxing together away from the hustle of others and the workforce are the perfect times for me. If you like these activities, we may have a chance to make life a wonderful experience.
Danny
Standard Member
62
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Body style:
Average
Romantic Canadian
I want to change the world for a special woman. I am a very athletic, honest, Canadian film producer. I live on a surf beach in Mexico, below Los Angeles, and work in and out of Hollywood. I am a romantic man and a true gentleman. I have a very fu
LUKE
Standard Member
26
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Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 42
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Single 60 year old man in Pattaya
I am 60 years old. It will not allow me to correct the wrong date for age. I am retired, and plan to live much of my life in Thailand. I like going out to eat, reading, movies, pool, darts. I also like people watching. I have an old injury that limits how far I can walk without a rest. I can travel any time.
Jay
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50
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Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 60
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Where are you hiding?
Hello, my name is John from USA 🇺🇸 . I am a tooling specialist and cnc machinist for a large electric company. We make products for the global market. I enjoy my job and the people I work with. In my spare time, I enjoy diy projects, gardening, auto work, cleaning and organizing, cooking, fishing, playing disk golf, watching movies, listening to music, and spending time with my mate.
Larry
Standard Member
71
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Knoxville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 60
Body style:
Athletic
Searching for my soulmate
I am 71 years old, 5’9”, 176 pounds, blue eyes, whiteish hair with an athletic build. I work out at the gym fours days per week and trail hike in the mountains one day. Divorced for a year and a half. I just moved to a mountain top in the Smoky Moun
Nathan
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Verified
49
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Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 46
Body style:
Average
Looking for Love
I travel a lot. Have a home in United States as well as near tamarindo In Costa Rica. I love to work-out at the gym. Being physically and mentally healthy is a priority. Go snowboarding. Play board games, dominos, cards, and billiards. I love to travel. I work the summers in California. I have winter months free to do what I want. I live between Utah, California, and Costa Rica I love to watch movies at home. Spirituality is very important to me.
Chuck
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Verified
58
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Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 47
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Living in USA, Teacher, 57, not religious, liberal
A former engineer and Army Veteran now working in a middle school as a teaching assistant (literacy). I may consider becoming a math teacher (interventionist) soon. I like yoga, electric bike riding, playing with my dog, watching movies, going out to eat, music, dancing, board games, hiking, etc. I take medication for anxiety/depression as I have a traumatized nervous system from childhood trauma.
Jimmy
Standard Member
56
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Eugene, Oregon, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 40
Body style:
Athletic
Mountain Man from Alaska
I love Hiking, Mountain Biking, Motorcycles, and being outdoors. I love traveling. I've been all over the world and want to see more. I'm not afraid of much. I was a Professional Motorcycle Racer for many years. My son is my best friend and we live t
Charlie
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Verified
69
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 45
Body style:
Athletic
Seriously looking for someone serious. But funny.
👉Failure to read my profile = Automatic 🚫 👉Failure to fill out your profile = Automatic 🚫 Lately I've been working a lot. But when not working I like to dance, bowl, play pool, fish. I also enjoy movies of all kinds. I enjoy dining out occasionally and enjoy comedy, music of all kinds except rap and also enjoy the arts 🎨 I was born in the north west corner of Pennsylvania but moved to Texas many years ago. Twice married. First time 10 years. 2nd time 20 years. Divorced since 2013. 3 children, two girls and a boy. All grown. I'm on the site looking for a friend, companion, lover and wife. Someone independent but interdependent, intelligent who is also looking for the same thing and doesn't want to run back home the first time they break a nail . I'm an occupational therapist I work in home health and a large acute care teaching hospital and a local skilled nursing facility. 6-7 days a week. No I've never been to Thailand. No fat women. A-B cup ok maybe C. Be nice 🤗
james
Standard Member
Verified
61
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Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 50
Body style:
Average
ARE YOU READY FOR SOMETHING REAL?
About me: I am I down to earth, successful man, looking for a serious relationship. I am fl. I am intelligent, confident and strive to learn as much as I can every day. I think of myself as a renaissance man. I like to read, and learn subjects as diverse as heath/nutrition to quantum physics and astronomy. (and no, Im not a nerd! :) I also workout regularly, and like traveling, movies, flying and absolutely love,music. Im sure I have many other interests that I can think of right now. Personality: Ive got a great sense of humor, but above all I am romantically and spiritually very deep, trusting, loyal, down-to-earth, and easy-going.
Michael
Standard Member
65
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Vicksburg, Mississippi, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 45
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Don’t Worry, Be Happy!
My friends would say I am a serious, responsible, and very professional person. I can't argue this point as my outward perception, but privately I place a high value on spontaneity and have a rather dry sense of humor (even sarcastic at times). I am direct, confident, and know what I like, but as I approach my retirement years I am realizing there is more to life than being an over-achiever. Looking for a special friend for casual conversation, honest sharing, and to convince me why a new life in the Philippines with a Filipina would be my best decision! oh...a few more details: If given the choice between a night out on the town at an expensive restaurant or an intimate walk on the beach....the beach wins every time. Not because I like the beach, but because I would rather be more into you than make an appearance at a trendy nightclub. I really don't have hobbies such as golf or hiking, but I do appreciate history, exploring, and culinary experiences (a nice bottle of wine, a fine cigar, and the company of a few friends is the perfect evening). If any of this is of interest to you, mention "cigars" in your message to me.
Thad
Standard Member
Verified
61
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Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 45
Body style:
Athletic
A devoted single dad seeks a partner
As a successful entrepreneur and devoted single dad, I cherish my business's flexibility to spend quality time with my eight-year-old daughter. She is my motivation and inspiration. Family comes first, yet I also value living a balanced life. I stay active by cooking healthy meals, walking, and doing weekend beach trips. I'm always up for new adventures, whether exploring an exotic locale or trying the latest restaurant in town. I unwind at the end of each day by catching a beautiful sunset. These quiet moments remind me to be present and appreciate the simple joys. Ideally, I seek a partner who shares my lust for life. She has her interests and ambitions yet values family and togetherness. I envision someone who complements me by bringing out my romantic side. Most importantly, I want a relationship built on open communication, mutual trust, and respect. I believe when two whole, confident people come together in partnership, it creates space for each to continue growing. I'm proud of the fulfilled life I've built through integrity and perseverance. I'm excited to meet a remarkable woman to create future memories with.
Trenton
Standard Member
41
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Tucker, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 40
Body style:
Average
Only women who like my personality could love me.
Only women who like my personality could love me for who I am. Ladies, are you looking for a man who will be there with you, I'm that type of man in a good way. Of course we start getting to know one another before going any further. Types of Music I like.... Smooth Jazz,Nu-Jazz,Jazz,Classic R&B,R&B,Soul,certain 70's-90's old-school music and lil bit of hip-hop. Types of Movies I like.... Action/Adventure,Anime,Comedy & Other Movies/TV-Shows that are kool and not boring. Any other questions?Just send me a Real Message. NO FLIRTS!!
Randy
Standard Member
Verified
51
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Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 44
Body style:
Average
I want a God Fearing woman that loves Fun in Bed
Christian, God Fearing, honest, simple, loving, caring, family oriented, responsible, faithful, understanding, patient, gentle, humble and good hearted, Separated father of 2 daughters, 16 and 17. Looking for a woman that loves to give and receive much pleasure in the bedroom and if our chemistry is right, we can consider. I need a good woman. I'm in USA, and I sleep alone, as I am separated. Looking for a new life partner who loves to both receive and give great oral pleasure, this is important to me because I need the stress relief and I believe a healthy sex life is very GOOD for the health. I am open to commitment. I need a good woman who loves to cook. I love Asian Foods, I love spicy, I love curry, I love soups, I love Asian food!!! Did I mention I love Cunnilingus? I love a woman who loves providing Fellacio activities and fun. I love a woman who wants Cunnilingus. Just in case you wonder why I’m here, here is my story, just 3500 words, LOL Here is my story, so you know... please read this carefully and consider me, thank you in advance for your time! In 1997 I had gotten close to a lady, Teresa Marie, in the USA that grew on me as we got closer and closer. I was in the US Air Force at the time. We were very close when I got military orders to go to Japan. I left for 2 years in Japan. I then later got out of the Air Force and ran into her again in 2000. We quickly regained our closeness and remained close until 2003, when I found another friend of mine at her house at 3am. My heart was broken so much, I wanted to leave and go away as far as possible, even to the other side of the planet into a danger zone / war zone. I had no concern for myself or my safety, I just wanted to go away, I had loved her so much. Since it was after 9/11 attacks, I had just got my heart broken, and I had just got out of 9 years Air Force, I decided I wanted to leave my home state and go overseas and help the military. I was so broken hearted by her I was hoping that something would happen to me in the war zone area of Iraq or Kuwait. I wanted my hurt to be gone, and I wasn’t dealing with it properly and using wisdom. I let it get to me. I had accepted a telecom job in Kuwait helping the US Army as a contractor. I went to Kuwait at the end of 2004. I was planning to only work and stay single and try to save money in Kuwait. A few months went by and my co-workers were trying to get me out of the apartment on the weekend. I finally gave in and went with them to a place in Kuwait called the Filipino Food Center, they had live music and food buffet. I met Victoria there on the dance floor in front of the DJ and Blasting Loud Speakers, she was from Cebu and working in Kuwait, and she was trying to send money home to family and support her 16 year old daughter. At that moment in my life, I still felt broken, broken-hearted, and miserable from my USA Lady, Teresa Marie, relationship going bad. When I met Victoria, she relaxed me and spoiled me. She did a good job. She got me hook line and sinker. I felt in love. She got me good. I saw her work conditions and living conditions and I thought to myself, I wanted to rescue her from her conditions and I could give up myself to make nice for Victoria, get her an opportunity as a US Citizen and living in America, I was not using wisdom at all. I did not give any scrutiny or criticism to her little lies and deception. At that moment, I didn’t care about myself. She spoiled me so good, she latched on to me, and she told me I was going to marry her. I didn’t argu. I just went along with what she said because she was mostly treating me like a King, very nicely. I never asked her to marry me, she told me I was going to marry her. I never ever planned to get with someone that was not born-again Christian. Church was so important to me, but she sweet talked me into believing she accept Christ and will go to church with me, well, as the years went by, yes, we went to church, but she never wanted bibles study, she never wanted to get involved with church family activities, she never wanted to study the bible, she’s not book smart. I tried so much, as the years went by, but she said, “No, I don’t want”. So, thinking back in 2005 that she would be happy to go church with me, I went along with it, not realizing I was going into a trap that I could not seeI was not using wisdom and I wasn’t focused on looking for a Proverbs 31 woman like I should have been. I didn’t scrutinize or test or evaluate her against what the bible says in Proverbs 31:10-31. We went to Cebu, Philippines in October 2005 to get married at the Cebu Court House. She already had a daughter from before that was 16 years old so I started paying for her college at that time and help financially support the utilities and things at her little house in Cebu. To her credit, at the beginning we were always eating out, so she I guess thought that it was always going to be like that with me, she wouldn’t have to cook, because we would always eat outside or order food for delivery. Maybe that was my fault to spoil her to the eating out all the time. I guess I blame myself for that part of the problem We had 2 daughters born in Kuwait. The first daughter, Jahlena, had a perfect natural birth in 2006 at the Kuwiat Government Hospital. Later on in 2007, the second daughter was ready to be born. Victoria said she did not enjoy her experience at the Kuwait Government Hospital, so we picked a different place for her birth. Well it turns out we went to the wrong hospital with incompetent doctors. Victoria almost died at the hospital during Vahnna’s birth. Vahnna was very big [11 lbs and 6 oz] and they did a natural birth instead of a C-section. They got Vahnna hung up and could not get her unhung up. They hurt Victoria a lot and they paralyzed Vahnna’s left arm trying to get her out. They finally got her out. But they almost both died. TERRIBLE “DOCTORS”, I wish I could go back there and spank both of those doctors and sue that hospital bigtime. See, I’m not a huge guy, and Victoria is not huge, but on her side on her mothers side, there are some bigger genetics from Victoria’s Mother’s Father (From China). And on my side, my Mother’s Father and all his family were really big, large knees and large ankles and big big big. Well, both of my daughters are not skinny and they are not pitite. They are big girls. But Those doctors nearly killed both Victoria and our second daughter Vahnna. Vahnna is 16 years old and she still suffers from that birth injury. She has a malformed and weak left arm. She does almost everything with only the right arm. It is so difficult for her. Vahnna’s birth Injury is called Erb’s Palsy, caused by the hanging of the shoulder, which leads to a Brachial Plexus Injury. “Erb palsy, or Erb-Duchenne paralysis, is a paralysis of the arm caused by the injury to the upper group of the main nerves supplying it, specifically the upper trunk C5-C6 of the brachial plexus In Victoria’s defense: I look at her event of Vahnna’s Birth, was tragic, and I feel she suffered a near death event and PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder every since. This is what I believe to be the primary problem. She has not had the determined intellect and spiritual wisdom to overcome the trama and fear of that nearly fatal birth of our second daughter in 2007. I believe that in her mind, she does not want the chance of another traumatic brith experience. So I started to notice her acting differently toward me in 2007-2008… the romance evaporated to nothing, vanished, it was over. I had noticed it, but I tried to play it off and be positive, it never got better. When our daughters were little and so cute… we were always going to Filipino Parties for Birthdays, Christmas Parties, etc. as we would go… and meet other friends and families… it was much more fun when the daughters were little and fun and busy to keep up with all the time. I treasured those moments. As the years went by… the daughters became more growing and more independent (of course). I enjoyed the Filipino Parties so much years ago… but that became less enjoyable for myself over time… why? Well, because our relationship suffered and had no romance, it would make me feel sick when we would go to a Filipino Party event and I would visit with the male spouses and their wives were good and romantic and come and sit on their husbands lap and have little kisses and hugs… it would only remind me of my broken relationship at home, and no hugs, no kisses, no cuddles, nothing. It gets so irritating and uncomfortable for myself… I usually don’t go inside the Filipino Party Event / get togethers any more, it makes me feel not good when I go and see other couples have romantic romance actions, hugging, holding, etc. I don’t get that in my life now for many many years. I feel like I’m in a house arrest, in a prison without the touch of a woman. I’m so tired of it. I want it to be over. I want a change. Also, if I go to the Filipino Party Events, I see the romantic wifes being romantic to their husbands, I look at them, so beautiful, I feel temptation and dream. But I know I should not bother them, that would be bad of me. So, it is better I don’t go to any Filipino Party Events, so I don’t feel the misery and temptation. I try so hard to be good and do the right thing. I want a woman in my life that loves me. I say this to establish and give better understanding to the big picture, which likely explains why things are the way they are in the relationship between Victoria and I. Every since 2007, Victoria does not want me to touch her. The romance evaporated into nothing in 2007. I have suffered every since. No Hugs, No Kisses, No touching, No cuddles, NOTHING. She might on rare occasion display in front of her friends, excitement to see me and give me a hug in front of her friends, BUT IT IS ALL FAKE AND ALL DRAMA, NOT TRUE. I’m a prisoner in my own house every since. On top of that, she always complains about something every day, complaining to me to do this or do that to fix it (NOT politely, but rudely demanding, and raising her voice at me, as if I don’t care), all the time and everyday is abnormal. She has mental issues. Quite often, she will get ready to go out to eat then tell me she is going out to the car to go eat… then she is upset while waiting for me to get ready. She did not tell me to get ready, she gets ready and tells me she’s going to the car to go out. She will not sit down and wait for me or us (the girls) to get ready, she yells and shouts, “LET’S GO!!!, HURRY, LETS GO!!!” She is so impatient and does not communicate properly. She is rude to me all the time. As I reflect back, I guess she was rude to the girls as they were growing up, I never put my foot down and was fearful to put my foot down and try to correct things, difficult to do the right thing sometimes. I didn’t know what to do to make things better. It is mental abuse. She’s been doing this and acting like this for many many years, it is TRULY Heartbreaking. It hurts so much… for example; So, she demands I drive her to wherever, restaurant, out to eat or whatever, I don’t argue, I try to please and keep some peace, so I go… then when we get to the store or the mall or to the grocery store she just gets out of the car and walks away without me. She does not wait for me. She will not wait and walk together, She just takes off. In the grocery, she always walks away. I can’t stop to look at anything in the store, cause she’ll just take off without me, like I don’t exist or I’m a total stranger. No walking together, no holding hands, no hugs, NOTHING. If we are going to a restaurant to go eat, she does the same thing. She gets out of the car and walks away, she never waits for me. She goes into the restaurant and finds a table without me and I have to follow and find the table wherever she went. Is that romantic or what?? Same thing if we go to a Shopping Mall. Well at least she knows what I like to eat. But she will not cook for me. My youngest daughter will cook for me, but not Victoria. If she cooks for me some eggs she always overcooks them knowing I don’t like them cooked so much. She says, “oh well, there’s your egg, eat!” So usually I don’t ask her to cook eggs for me because she is going to intentionally do it wrong. Is that twisted or what? I’ve told her for many years, I would love to have Beef Stew, once a year I get beef stew, and it isn’t good. I also have another American food favorite my Mom use to make for me, French Toast, Victoria use to make French toast, but very rarely with much care, usually overcooked. My daughter Vahnna is an excellent cook, she cooks my egg perfectly, she cooks my French Toast perfectly, but not Victoria. After all these years, I’m so wore down and heart broken. I gave her my life to take care of her, rescue her from her work and living conditions in Kuwait, help pay her previous daughters college expense, I helped Victoria get her US Visa and US Citizenship. I’ve taught her to drive, paid for a car, pay a house mortgage and I get treated as a terrible tenant. She’s a nag nag nag usually about nothing that is a big deal. It gets old. Day after day, week after week, year after year. Many years ago, she started wanting to go to the Casino. I don’t care for going to the Casino, so I barely go inside then I go sit out in the Van and wait until she is finished playing at the Casino. She usually makes me driver her to the Casino every week for the last several years, at least an hour drive to travel to the casino, depending on which casino. I get treated as Mr. Taxi Driver dude. And no reward except she quits complaining and nagging when I start driving her somewhere. I’m so tired of it. I have a difficult job that requires lots of intellect and analytics and lots of driving all the time… even if I drive all day long, when I get home, she usually says, “I’m ready to go to the casino” then, it may escalate, when I tell her I’m too tired to drive that far. She does not care and insist on me driving to the casino and wait on her until she is done so I can driver her back. She is not comfortable driving over 40 miles per hour. So, if we need or if she needs to go somewhere down the faster Interstate highway where the speed is more like 70 mph plus, she will not and likely can not handle driving fast. I don’t get it. So, all the places she wants to go that require highway travel speed, I am the driver even to Filipino Parties 1 hour drive away. I drive her there, and I sit in the car/van and wait usually because I don’t want to be reminded of my relationship that has no romance and I don’t want the temptation of looking too much or speaking too much to the other Filipina's that are romantic and sweet to their husbands. I go home and walk in the door, during the 2005-2007 the home greetings were awesome. After 2007, when I come home, NOTHING, No Hugs, No Kisses, No Cuddles, no home cooked meal the way I like, the way my Mom use to cook . No “I love you”, never, always NOTHING. I want so much for this to be over and find someone new. I’m so tired of this heart ache and heart break. This is why you find me here. I’m dreaming and looking for someone to rescue my heart and restore a romantic life to my broken heart. This is difficult for me to be here because if she finds out… oh I’m in trouble. Trouble for what, not trying to be considerate, loving, and romantic. Hello, who is saying NO NO NO Verbally and NON-verbally MOSTLY to me all the time. IF you tell a spouse no long enough, years for sure, something is likely to lead to separation emotionally, physically, and maybe spiritually. I can say all the prayers and even powerful prayers; IF she doesn’t want me or if she doesn’t want to be romantic to her “husband”, I can not force her to love me. If she doesn’t love me, what can I do, only pray and be strong, I continue to try and endure… I want it to be over, completely, but I also want to cherish, honor and respect, and care for the feelings of our daughters 16 and 18 now. I don’t want them to cry. I want to be with and support and be there for my daughters. I’m still here for them mostly. I also, her in the USA, I don’t have the heart to push Victoria out on the street, she could not provide for herself here, it is very expensive in the USA. I still provide shelter and try to show love. After all these years of trying and enduring. I’m tired. I want a change. I need someone new in my life. This is my life romance story. I hope that helps you understand where I’m coming from and explains why I’m here. AFTER SUMMARY I'm sorry I'm getting older, most of my hair has gone, I was an idiot thinking I could improve my smile by removing my teeth to wear dentures, I did not like my first dentures, so I don’t wear them. I plan to wear new dentures soon when I get a proper fit, I’m hopint; and too much stress has been killing me for years, work stress and home stress. My work is very stressful like an Air Traffic Controller job, I work Global Network Field Operations, very stressful job And when I go home, I get no hello, no hug, no kisses, nothing from the lady from cebu that told me I was going to marry her in 2005. She had me hook line and sinker. She caught me, spoiled me, deceived me. My heart has been very broken for a very long time. I am partly to blame for being stupid, unwise and not evaluating her more before allowing myself to get with her. I want to use the excuse that Teresa Marie in the USA broke my heart so much in 2003, I din’t care about myself and I did not use wisdom when I allowed myself to get with Victoria from Cebu. I was trying to be overly optimistic while being so unconcerned about myself at that time. I remember thinking to myself, as referring to Victoria, “I could give this girl a change of life for the better, all I have to do is go with the flow and give her the world as much as I can, US VISA, US Citizenship, etc. and take care of her”. I didn’t know how much it was going to cost me by getting with someone that didn’t truly love me. She does not love me. I still endure and try to make things as good as I can. It is getting old. I’m so tired of it. She lied to me so much. It was difficult raising our daughters with her. She would become so uncooperative at times. I tried to mostly play everything off as it will be alright. It hurts beyond imagination. I gave up my life to make things good for her, recued her from her job and work and living conditions in Kuwait. I helped her get US Visa and Citizenship and a home in USA, and she stepped on my heart in 2007 by only treating me nice in front of other people and behind the scenes treating me like a bad tenant they pays the bills and drives her everywhere. I wish I could have a new life with a Hot new Filipina wife do you know if you could comfort my heart cuddle me every day and take care of me and cuddle on the couch while watching tv or hold me in the bed? I am so tired of sleeping alone, like in a prison without a woman to hold and kiss and make love to and spoil and give pleasure and comfort where she would be willing and want to cuddle and hug and kiss. Do you want to be the one that heals my broken heart ? 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